Careful Consideration

Photo compliments of Love Tree Studios

It’s been a while since I talked about an event-specific topic and since I’ve stumbled upon this a few times with clients lately, I thought I would put together a post. When you’re planning an event, you want the day to be about you: your wedding day, your milestone birthday, your retirement, etc. But in order to properly do so, you want to take into consideration outside factors. Let me explain.

In Columbia, it’s not uncommon for brides and grooms to wait to book their fall wedding until after the Mizzou football schedule comes out. To some people who aren’t from Columbia, this sounds crazy. But Columbia is the kind of town that completely revolves around the game on football Saturdays. Plus now that we have joined the SEC, you also have to think about hotel room availability, especially if you have a lot of out of town guests.

Or how about traffic and road closures. The country club I work at happens to be very close to the location where Roots ‘N Blues ‘N BBQ takes place. And each year, the roads are re-routed to improve the flow of traffic to the festival. But that means the normal route to the country club is closed off and routed a different way. You need to think about that in order to give your guests the best set of directions or at least a heads up, so they aren’t late to your celebration. Other examples of events that might re-route or cause traffic issues are races, concerts and parades.

Photo compliments of Silverbox Photography.

Parades tend to coincide with holidays, which is something else you want to take into consideration when choosing a date. Some people think it’s best to host an event on a holiday weekend because that usually means there’s an additional day off from work and gives people time to travel. Although this is true, in my experience, attendance is always down on holiday weekends. There’s usually multiple commitments on these weekends, family activities are a high priority and travel is more expensive.

Speaking of money, you also want to consider prices on holiday weekends. A lot of venues will have higher rental prices on holidays, or you might have to pay extra for additional staffing. Or how about floral prices that skyrocket around Mother’s Day, Valentine’s Day, etc? There might be some additional costs that will really break the bank when it comes to adhering to your budget.

These are just some simple reminders of things you might want to consider when picking a date. It’s easy to put blinders on and only focus on specific details when you really want the whole experience for your guests from travel to event to home to be positive!

 

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Lessons Learned as a New Mama

Almost six months ago to the day, I was headed to the hospital anxiously awaiting the arrival of our little girl and about to enter into a new chapter of life. I was excited, scared and quite frankly, had no idea what to expect.

Since then, I have learned an awful lot about myself, life, our marriage and one beautiful little girl. So in honor of Mother’s Day, I’ve compiled a list of things I’ve learned thus far in my six short months as a mama-some serious, some comical and overall, a compilation of the last six months.

  1. The days are long, but the months and years are short. That statement could not be more true.
  2. It is possible for more than your heart to hurt for someone. In fact, your boobs can too.
  3. As much as you want to fill up others’ cups before your own, you have to remember to put yourself first from time to time.
  4. Motherly instinct kicks in even for the soundest of sleepers.
  5. Blow drying your hair is a luxury.
  6. Plans must be made in three-hour increments.
  7. Learn to laugh at yourself, even in the most ridiculous situations.
  8. There is no amount of spit up, drool, poop or pee that will ever phase you anymore.
  9. You will never forget the nurse who takes you to the bathroom for the first time after being in labor.
  10. Continue to live your life, and you will figure out how to do it with a baby, even if that means long car rides, airplanes, concerts, hikes, etc.
  11. Sucking snot out of your child’s nose with a tube is not weird but a frequent occurrence.
  12. You will learn to appreciate your own mother in so many more ways.
  13. There is an unspoken Mom understanding that all mothers secretly communicate during unfortunate situations.
  14. The “no shopping carts allowed in the bathroom” rule doesn’t apply to those pushing around a sleeping baby and shopping alone.
  15. Breastfeeding is hard. For something so natural, it’s not, but if you stick with it, it’s worth it. Your baby appreciates you.
  16. And on that topic, breastfeeding will completely deflate your boobs, but on the bright side it is the fat whisperer. Weigh the options.
  17. It is 100% OK to cry on your first day back to work after you drop your baby off at daycare. Almost everyone does.
  18. Make time for you and your husband because it’s easy to get put on the back burner.
  19. An SUV is absolutely necessary because when you travel anywhere, you basically pack up your entire house.
  20. You will learn the definition of “enjoy the small things” because even the smallest of changes and accomplishments will bring joy to your day.
  21. There is no better feeling in the world than a baby falling asleep on your chest.
  22. Their life has just begun but so has yours.

These Are a Few of My Favorite Things

When I originally started this blog, I was inspired by how many celebrations I was getting to be involved in and celebrate this year. And from the graphic above, you can see really how much celebrating I did this year! How blessed am I that this year has been such a whirlwind of milestones that I get to share with family, friends and clients?

And when I look back at all of these events, there are a few things that stand out as my favorites:

The handmade paper flowers from the wedding of Heather Benson & Alex Horn. I mean talk about talent!

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Our vintage Mother’s Day finds for brunch. I mean, who doesn’t like getting paid to go antiquing as part of your job?

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The bride who took some golf action shots in her wedding dress.

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Photo compliments of Tyler Beck Photography.

 The police car that crashed the wedding reception.

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The ability to pull off a total surprise.

The mounds of flowers I got to enjoy far past the Elder/Smith wedding.

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Photo compliments of Silverbox Photography.

The unplugged ceremony that focused on guests taking in the real moments of the wedding.

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Photo compliments of KatFour Photo.

 The genuineness of couples.

Photo compliments of Lindsey Pantaleo
Photo compliments of Lindsey Pantaleo.

The fact that my friends are creative enough to make McDonald’s the theme for a bridal shower.

Photo compliments of B. B. Photography
Photo compliments of B. B. Photography.

The handmade cakes by Lauren.

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The endless supply of cheers & champagne!

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The “Friends” photo booth.

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Photo compliments of J. Kelley Photography & Photo Booth.

The monogrammed corn hole games.

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The gorgeous calligraphy and attention to detail from Blue Poppy Lettering.

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The presence of a lost mother.

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That magical moment of walking down the aisle.

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Photos compliments of Heather Brulez Photography.

When your heart is so happy for a couple that you feel like it could burst!

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Photo compliments of Carretto Studio.

The warm candlelight glow of this reception.

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And lastly because I am biased, the entire day on September 17, 2016.

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Photo compliments of D. Squared.